Prequel: Gathering information for an article I am writing on Transsexual Regretters

This discussion will tie into something I've recently taken an interest in and am writing an article about; transsexual regretters. What role, if any, does the  informed consent model contribute to the rate of transsexual regretters? I am looking at statistical outcomes for my article. If 5% of people who have come to regret their decision to transition and have grs, that becomes significant and can become an argument against informed consent, or even providing the means to have access to HRT and GRS via WPATH SOC.
Do you believe this is a significant issue? To be honest, and in the interest of full disclosure, I advocate for the WPATH SOC and am a member of WPATH.  I am a psychotherapist who is post transition and pre op. I have chosen to adhere to the SOC despite having the means to circumvent the process because I believe that WPATH's SOC is a reasonable and thoughtful approach for people coping with our issues. I am, however very open to other points of view. I don't believe I have the lock on what is "correct" or "right".
When I look at the recent study by NCTE and their statistics on substance abuse, poverty, victimization and attempted suicide rates (> 30%) which are magnitudes above the general population, then read what those who regret transitioning and their perspectives, I recognize that something significant has occurred and there seem to be far too many who think they made a terrible mistake.

Many of those who regret their decision to transition do not take much personal responsibility for their tragic regrets. They indict a system that allows almost no review in the process they undertake and see tragedy as a result.

Others rail against any kind of system that compels a person to engage in a process of examining their motives and potential for poor or disastrous outcomes in the hopes that system will provide better outcomes for those who transition from a biopsychosocial perspective.

I am exploring why those who regret their choices are so vocal in opposition to allowing others to proceed in this process and why whatever decisions they made to transition ended in such tragic results.

There are no clear compelling arguments for the extremes of each position here. What is your opinion?

To Your Health!

One of the more important things that I am both personally and professionally concerned with is the status of our overall well being. It worries me that we don't pay enough attention to our general health and worry most about getting HRT and the surgeries that we want to feel complete. Many of us ignore our health towards this goal by obtaining black market hormones off the street or from pharmacies that sell on line that don't even require a prescription. We don't really know what we are getting from these sources, but the imperative to move our bodies towards a better fit with our minds allows us to take risks risks with our health we would never consider doing otherwise regarding the rest of our health care. It is not entirely our fault, but we share some of the responsibility for this conundrum.

It has been notoriously difficult to find therapists, physicians and other health care providers to provide the care we need, yet more and more health care professionals are willing to treat us and more and more insurance companies are willing to pay for some, if not all of our health care needs on a parity to that comparable with other diagnoses. Many health care systems offer financial assistance based on income. There are also free clinics in many communities that offer health care to those who work, have no insurance and are of limited income. 

When I began working with transsexuals, way before I ever considered that it would be possible for me to transition, I was the only therapist who provided transgender care for the greater part of Virginia. I had one resource for a physician who provided HRT for my male to female patients. I had no resources for my female to male patients, but I had never encountered one until the last 4 years and I was able to find a doctor willing to provide his care.

Today I have developed resources for my patients that include the psychotherapy I provide, substance abuse treatment, treatment for co occurring mental health problems and second letter evaluations (psychiatry), primary care, endocrinology, aesthetic dermatology and voice therapy. Generally, we think of male to female people benefiting from voice therapy, but female to male people can benefit from this service as well. That is because communication within our gender identity does not only include the pitch, tone and inflection, of our voices, but it also includes non verbal communication such as gestures and body movement.

For whatever reason, even if you decide to go the DIYS (do it yourself) HRT route, there are some things that are absolutely necessary and should not be neglected.Please do these to maintain your good health!

1. Blood work: We need to have some blood work done twice a year when first beginning hormone reassignment therapy and after full induction, at least once a year. These tests include a metabolic panel to check the functioning of your organs. The liver and kidneys are particularly stressed by hormone therapy. Having a lipid panel is important as well because hormones can elevate cholesterol and raise the risk of coronary artery disease.

2. Depression, anxiety and substance abuse: These problems are epidemic in our community and we have an overall suicide rate of 41% of those who have attempted suicide at least once. People of color have a much higher rate of attempted suicide than that reported overall.

3. Substance abuse is a particularly severe problem for us and exacerbates depression and anxiety and is often a huge factor in attempted suicides. It has been difficult for us to find substance abuse treatment that is sensitive to us as individuals, but this has been an emphasised area for improvement among substance abuse treatment professionals. This problem is taking too many good brothers and sisters away from us. It is so unnecessary too. There are 12 step programs available. They work for more people than anything else. Check out Alcoholics Anonymous   or Narcotics Anonymous

   . Click on these links to find a meeting near you! http://aa.org/ or http://na.org/ . Some of the groups in some localities are for GLBT people specifically, if you don't feel comfortable with another type of meeting, but if there aren't any of those type meetings available in your area, please don't make that the excuse to not get the help you need. It is truly a matter of life and death.

4. Don't forget your annual mammography! While we generally have a lower rate of breast cancer than genetic women, we are at higher risk with family histories of our moms, sisters and aunts having had breast cancer, especially if they had one of the mutations that cause the more aggressive breast cancers. It is really a painless procedure and will be a life saver. Then there are a couple of tests that we hate as a reminder of having a body we felt was wrong for us. We still have to have the digital examination of our prostate glands. While the risk is reduced, we still are at risk for prostate cancer as we age, even though estrogen and progesterone are treatments used to slow the growth of prostate cancer. We also need to have the PSA blood test done on a yearly basis.

For the guys, it is important to continue to get that pelvic regularly along with a pap smear, and even if you have had a hysterectomy and oopherectomy, you will still need that done periodically, perhaps not as often.

5. See your dermatologist once a year, especially if you have had heavy sun exposure or have a history of skin cancer in your family. It is imperative that you do this yearly if you have has any relatives who had malignant melanoma. This is an extremely dangerous skin cancer and it is too often the case that when it is finally found, it is often too advanced to be successfully treated.

6. See your dentist twice a year! People who are able to keep their own teeth are healthier and live longer. Poor dental health can often lead to heart disease.

7. Don't smoke! It is the most difficult of all addictions to overcome, but it can be done! Smoking is a deceptive addiction, because it doesn't kill you as quickly as some other addictions, but the long term health consequences are devastating and are well known.

8. If you use alcohol, please use it in moderation. Alcohol in any quantity has negative effects on every tissue and organ in the body and is one of the more deadly addictions. Alcohol causes many ruined relationships and injuries due to accidents as well as fatalities. Know when you have had too much and don't be too proud to ask for someone else to drive or take you home. There is no shame in that and it may save some one's life if not your very own life.

9. Get some exercise daily! Even if you can just take 30 minutes and go for a brisk walk, it will improve your overall health as well as cardiac health. It will help you with weight control as well.

10. Be sure to laugh every day! Enjoying humor has been known to benefit general health and one's outlook. Cultivate a positive attitude. It is part of being healthy and attracting positive people. It will be part of being successful and happy in your own life. Smile! positive people are attracted to people who smile and are interested in their well being too.

11. Do something for someone else. It is good for one's outlook and overall attitude to do something nice for someone else. It doesn't have to be anything big, just look for that little opportunity to do something special to help someone else. The return will be ten times what it took to do that little helpful or kind thing!

I hope that you all have a happy and healthy 2012!

Practicing What I Preach: My Life With the WPATH SOC

I'm sure that some people must imagine that because I am a therapist that I can scoot around the Standards of Care and get what I want using my professional connections with other professionals who work with trans people, but I don't believe that would be in my best interest for my own health care. So I abide with the Standards of Care in my own life. Would you want to have open heart surgery by a doctor who didn't have a standard of care for that procedure?

I have been an advocate for the Standards of Care long before I became a member of WPATH. I know that some people deeply resent the existence of a standard of care and being required to follow a process. Consider this though; The National Center For Transgender Equality (Transequality.org)  and The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force commissioned a survey that reported a number of terribly sad statistics of what many of us have experienced, some things I have personally experienced over the years. 41% of trans people who were surveyed had attempted suicide at least once as opposed to the general public whose rate of attempted suicide is only 1.6%. For those of us who are unemployed, lost a job due to discrimination, or have been forced into sex work, the rates are much higher and for people of color the attempted suicide is 49%. I find these rates appalling and unacceptable.

Addiction and substance abuse are also terrible problems for us. 70% of the survey reported current problems with substances overall. 3% have been denied access to substance abuse treatment programs and 4% have experienced mistreatment while participating in substance abuse treatment programs. As a professional who also has spent a significant part of my practice in substance abuse treatment, I recognize that it can be absolutely crucial to catch a person at the moment they are willing to get into treatment or that moment will be lost and not come around for quite a long time, if ever. If you miss that opportunity, it could literally be fatal. 25% experienced either denial of care or being treated poorly by doctors' offices or hospitals and 16% were denied help or were mistreated in emergency rooms. 12% reported denial of help or were mistreated in mental health clinics. Simply unacceptable.

Another reason to seek out healthcare professionals who use the framework of the Standards of Care is because of the discrimination we face from healthcare professionals which bothers me quite a bit both personally and especially as a health care professional.  Professionals who use the standards to guide practice will likely have a network of local health care providers who can be sure that you have equal access and are treated with the dignity any person is due.

Half of us report we have had to educate health care professionals on our needs and how to treat us. Fortunately, there is a national effort directed by the National Institutes of care to educate the health care community to provide us with competent care. Having WPATH's Standard of Care, provides health care professionals a quick way to get up to speed on how to work with trans people.

One of the pitfalls that some health care professionals fall into is solely relying on the standards and not tailoring them to the needs of the individual. The SOC clearly state that they are not to be rigidly used and state they are a guide to practice. They were not meant to be followed by rote with each patient. Often in the beginning of the learning curve, a professional will tend to rely on them more often ver batim, but as experience is gained the professional often feels more comfortable in relying on their own clinical judgement. I think that I would prefer a practioner who followed them as written rather than practicing in ignorance and possibly making a serious mistake in my own care.

SO all in all, I think having the WPATH SOC benefits us and that is why I use them personally and professionally.